Sunday 7 October 2012

Big Mouth

Have you ever regretted saying something immediately after you've just said it? Sometimes we want to show our POV, expose our feelings. Sometimes there might even be traps laid out for you: "no sweetie, I want to know what you are thinking..." or "lets talk, you can tell me what you feel...". Now, hear me: YOU CAN'T. Just don't. Or you might get burned.

There is no use telling people your conjectures, your predictions, your "would have been's", if there is nothing to be done: to solve or to fix.

People won't understand what you are saying IN THE WAY you mean it. Lines will get mixed and crossed. And you will be left feeling alone, hurt and what's more: guilty. Guilty because people will get hurt as well. People you might truly love. And after that they will change their attitude towards you. Too bad for you, now hurting and forever hurt as well. No one cares that you just bared your soul to them. And this, my friend, can never be undone. Ever again. Things won't be the same. Relationships could be forever broken, including the relationship you were counting on to call home.

So, my advice, keep your f**** mouth shut, and keep these obnoxious thoughts and feelings (that most of the time mean nothing) to your f****** self.